Slow and steady. Start by loving the gap in between where you are and where you’d like to be. It’s all about you, become comfortable and happy with the emotional praise from yourself and not other people who are likely still trying to figure things out.
Why settle for vibrations that don’t move you? Settling for things that don’t add value to your life? Allowing things that don’t add value to disturb your soul? A place/person/thing that wouldn’t change one bit if your situation got 1000 times better or a 1000 worse. YOU deserve a love from a tribe that speaks clearly and shadeless to your soul. Let your best you flow and flourish! Choose her. Always!
Remember: Start visualising your highest self. Start showing up as her.